Today's guest post is from Tara K. Shepersky, a writer who holds conversations with inner and outer landscapes via essays, poems, photos, and feet. Read more of Tara's work at pdxpersky.com or follow her on Twitter @pdxpersky.
I used to have what I thought was a writing ritual. With earnest intent — though perhaps without full possession of the truth — I could tell you that my setting aside of space and time to write had three ingredients: there was a QWERTY; there was an appointment; and, usually, there was an owl.
Some of this, perhaps, is still accurate. More of it may still be useful, as lessons learned. In the last few days — since I sat down to draft this post, in fact — I've felt an existential shift, an unmooring of what I thought my practice was.
I will explain, but be warned: you're reading this almost in real time. You've got a front row seat to the dissolution of a writer's successful creative practice ritual, and I don't know what's going to happen either.
The shift began at depth, impossible to ignore but still unnamed. The way I imagine the Santa Barbara Channel feels, when great masses of cold water from its deepest reaches begin to roil toward the surface. The comparison offers some comfort. In the Channel, upwelling is a regular(ish) phenomenon with useful results: a dense flourishing of microscopic life that in turn refreshes everybody else.
I don't feel refreshed yet; I just feel cold. But maybe I can look at this as an opportunity to examine the elements of what I thought of as my ritual, and explore what works, what has shifted, and how to create what's missing.
First, though: why do I need a ritual? What even is that? What use is one to an artist? And why have I never asked myself these questions before?
Religion has been a deep part of my life from birth, one way or another. Both religious traditions I'm connected to are ritual-heavy.* It's the very thing about them that keeps them grounded, and has kept me coming back for their wisdom. Done well and with love and for a right purpose, rituals help us celebrate and live into what is most important, particularly in the everyday.
You know how sometimes you know you look a certain way — you have blond hair, for example, always have — and then one day you look in the mirror and realize your hair is brown? It's been brown for months, maybe years, and you never noticed the shift. I wonder if I've been coasting in a similar way on my self-image as a "ritual person." I "know" this is a part of me, and my writing is a crucial part of me, so perhaps I've only assumed that ritual plays a part in my writing.
So. A ritual is a set of physical actions performed in a particular order, using (maybe) one or more tools. It functions as a signal, defining, in this case, a mental space which the writer commits to her practice. It helps push aside distractions, settle the mind, and offer reassurance to your imposter syndrome that you, and your art, are worth regular energy and time.
In my experience, rituals work best when you do them regularly. Like anything else, they get stronger with practice. And those times life gets in the way, pleasantly or otherwise, so that you don't write for a few days? That's when they really come in handy. They bring you back.
My own supposed ritual has those three components I mentioned earlier. I haven't asked myself how they function. I'm asking now.
The QWERTY represents the only attention I manage consistently to pay to my father's maxim of "having the right tool for the job." I can use a keyboard — specifically this common, adorably named configuration — with the same unconscious ease that shapes a thought in my native tongue. I also use it quickly; it lets my fingers keep so nearly up with my thoughts that I'm rarely frustrated by the lag time. And I can use it by touch, allowing to me look out the window, rest my eyes, sometimes even daydream while still in the flow of composing. So it's my exact right tool for translating prose to page. And it does just fine for revising — though not composing — poetry.**
The Appointment is critical. It comes from the best piece of writing advice I have yet to receive: show up for the same kind of work at the same time every day. Mary Oliver said it, Nicole wrote it; a little less than a year ago, I finally got the memo.
To really nail this one, you need to know what time of day and under what physical circumstances your mind is most interested and agile, and also most willing to be solitary. Clock-time doesn't mean much to me, though your mileage may vary. I tune instead to light levels and body rhythms, so my writing appointments begin in the liminal space between night and day, outdoors and indoors, walking and settling. Which brings us to The Owls.
Walking, several miles at a time for pleasure, is so much a part of my life that it's also part of my identity. So there's a physical circumstance that meets the above criteria. Walking in the very early mornings, before the dawn and sometimes accompanying its unfolding, is a practice I began as a way to access exercise and fresher air in the over-heated, smoke-choked summers that have become the new normal here in the Pacific Northwest. It's pure serendipity that I began to do this immediately before my high tide of solitary mental engagement: the first few hours of daylight.
The place I came to favor for these early walks mixes forest and field, wetland and hedge, and it's less fragmented than most of what passes for "the outdoors" where I live. It's perfect habitat for barn and great horned owls. Realizing this, and keeping my eyes and ears alert, is all it took for the owls to find me first.
Great horneds are not too talkative in the summer, and their flight is silent, but catch half-sight of one crossing a waxing moon, and you'll look for them ever after. Barn owls get described as "ghostly," and indeed they seem this way, in pre-dawn not-quite-light, as you stop in your tracks and try to follow the dipping, fluttering hunt, low to the grass. Your eyesight will fail you; this is not a human hour. From the vagueness comes a sound like a waterlogged zipper, then pale maybe-wings tilting sharply to dodge your confused and clod-bound presence. Then a long cry, soft and terrifying — scraaaaiiil! — and if you didn't know yet the presence of Mystery, now you are beyond invited — you're impelled.
After the first encounters, I had to do the work. Owl-listening became something between a habit and a passion. Besides how to find owls (in my particular place), it reminded me how to walk in my surroundings, not merely on them; how to be, as Thoreau said, entirely present "in the woods," thinking of the woods and not of things outside them. How to meditate, in fact.
And meditation is very good for writing. The regular practice of emptying your mind, then allowing just your immediate experience to fill it, singly and slowly, like dropping pebbles in a pool, both stokes and soothes that restlessness from which you shape the writing you know for truth.
There are about a hundred ways to meditate; mine is to dress in quiet colors and go out to meet the darkness. Before I can completely see the earth and sky, I have to reach for them, feel for them, listen. I enter a state that is set apart, reserved out of regular time for something Other.
So this is a pretty solid ritual, right? Five days a week, rise in darkness to walk a couple of miles with full attention on the natural world and your own internal state. Come home around dawn, at the beginning of peak creative hours, and settle to your practiced partnership with the tool best suited to help you spin experience, emotion, and thought into words on a page.
Here's the wrench I didn't know I'd left in the gears, though. I didn't start meditating by happy accident, and I didn't start doing it as a way to shape space for my writing. I did it specifically to control my anxiety. There was a synchronicity involved: I discovered that walking with attention was just as good as say, sitting in your bathtub for 20 minutes with the lights off, thinking of nothing in particular. And then I happily combined meditating into my pre-writing walks and thought no more about it.
When I subsequently went back to therapy and (yes, I know this is a big claim, and it's true) got rid of my general anxiety, the first component of what I had imagined to be my writing ritual sort of... shook itself loose.
I used to return from my pre-dawn forays absolutely itching to meet up with my keyboard. I didn't always know what I wanted to say until my fingers touched down, but I was that perfect combination of emotionally settled and creatively provoked.
Lately I leave the fields feeling unsettled and unfinished. I still want to write, but I don't settle to it. The currents that used to push me straight there are shifting, and I'm occupied trying to watch and understand.
My owl-time itself is almost speaking to me about this, insisting it is actually a different sort of ritual, about identity and inner quiet and connection. It used to be a tool, and it wants to be, instead, a deep well and a refuge. I think the direction it's ultimately pulling me is toward a spiritual practice.
My religious identity is complicated, and I'm so confused about praying I've been known to conflate it with my writing practice. So what kind of spiritual practice my owl-walks or their successors want to be is an open question I will take my time and invite all my patience to live into. Meanwhile, there's this other opportunity: I need a new writing ritual. How do I find that?
Here's what I know: there is a compass inside me. It pointed toward owl-walking, it pointed toward therapy, and as of the morning I sat down, fresh from the fields, to write this piece, it spun around and pointed clear off the established map.
I'm not sure what's over there yet. Ever play one of those role-playing video games where the map is covered in fog that dissipates only as you walk right into it? I'm well-practiced at walking into literal fog and darkness; I am totally up for this metaphorical challenge.
So. Watching for the path forward, what else do I know?
I know the QWERTY and the appointment and the timing of that appointment are elements I want in my creative practice. In the not-quite-one-year I've set my intention to partner with them, they've powered seven drafts of two manuscripts, uncountable new compositions, and 155 single essay and poem submissions. Even when I was too sick to owl-walk, or I couldn't meditate, or my mind refused me the right words, they helped me deliver.
I also know how to look for owls. It's a knowing I was graced with at first, and then had to learn in order to continue to succeed. So I know I can learn to follow my compass when it points somewhere I don't yet understand.
Intuition: that's probably what this is. I used to believe I didn't have any. Great at introspection, I never knew where to take what I had learned. My compass has constructed itself over the years through wildly varied efforts to figure that out: psychological study, prayer, meditation, acquiring a contemplative practice, reading tarot. And also just experience. I might be figuring out that the secret isn't actually knowing. It's trust.
So I don't know how my writing ritual will re-shape.*** Nor, since this shift is so much larger than one area of my life, how my spiritual practice will coalesce. Nor how to reckon with whatever else I am without the anxiety I carried for so long.
But I am learning to trust myself to ride the upwelling currents. My compass has let me know when the course is changing; my job is to keep my eye on its dance, and follow. In itself, this trust is more valuable than any specific rituals that result. It is their source, and maybe my access to much that is deep and worthwhile within me. I am so grateful, finally, to have found it.
*I was born, baptized into, and participate today in the Lutheran Church. Some other important connections I discovered in early adulthood, via a moderately traditional version of Wicca. I suppose they do seem quite disparate, on the face of things.
**Poetry, in my experience, happens everywhere except at the neat-and-tidy keyboard, and often inconveniently. It's the unruly friend you love being around — if she would only stop inviting herself over without notice. (At least she brings wine.) If I specifically want to be the one doing the inviting, I go for a walk and I pay attention. That's it. Poetry is about rhythm, and so is walking; it's basic sympathetic magic.
***I do certainly keep trying new ideas. But so far when I reach for one, my compass just wobbles. It's an encouraging wobble, if that makes sense, but it's not a Heck Yes. The closest we've come is lighting the fire and just staring at the flames until it feels right to pull away. My otherwise well-behaved tuxedo cat, d'Artagnan, takes this as an invitation to shout about how much he has missed me on my walk, and how I should settle in our chair now so he can snuggle. So this may not, in fact, be the best way forward.